If you or your children are not safe, get help now. Visit a nearby emergency service, hospital, or police station immediately. The lines listed below are gender-based-violence lines.
Crisis numbers in South Africa
- GBV Command Centre: Tel: 0800 428 428 | Text: 31531 (SMS for people with disabilities). 24 hours.
- LifeLine Gender Violence Helpline: Tel: 0800-150-150 | WhatsApp: +27800150150. 24 hours.
- TEARS Foundation helpline, for people affected by rape or abuse: Tel: 08000 83277. 24 hours.
This page lists Female Couples Counsellors in Cape Town. 37 in all.
That is 37 of the 46 counsellors listed in Cape Town.
These are practitioners who identify as female on their profile 1. We ask every therapist that question, and they may decline to answer. We do not check the answer, and nothing here is ranked.
This list answers an explicit request for a woman. While many people prefer this, we found no research on whether it changes how the therapy goes.
A client and a practitioner always differ; what matters is what that means to you and how you work with it 2. You can filter the same list by the languages a practitioner works in.
What the counsellors on this page do, and how to choose one
For a couple, the counsellors listed in Cape Town offer talking sessions of about an hour 3. Counselling usually runs weekly, for a set number of sessions.
Assessment, diagnosis and medicine sit outside counselling; ask who provides them where you are. Open the profiles below to compare experience, language, fee, and whether they work online. Ask how soon each one can see you.
What a counsellor does, and how counselling differs from psychotherapy
Everyone on this page describes their work as counselling. A counsellor listens and helps you find your own solutions to problems 3.
The training emphasises the conversation itself. Sessions usually stay close to something happening now: a loss, a relationship, work, a decision. That focus is what most often separates counselling from longer psychotherapy.
A counsellor is not a medical doctor and does not prescribe or diagnose. Ask a counsellor what they work with, and for how long.
What this page filters on
These are the only filters: the practitioner's stated Female identity, the specialism recorded as Couples and the professional title counsellor.
Fees, insurance and lower-cost options
Do affordable options exist in Cape Town?
Groote Schuur Hospital - Psychiatry Outpatient Services. Phone +27 21 404 9111. Western Cape public hospitals charge on a means-tested scale. Patients in the lowest band pay nothing for specialist outpatient visits. Public patients are accepted by referral from a district or secondary service. Each specialty has its own eligibility criteria.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do both of us have to come?
Is this for married couples only?
No. Couples counselling is for people in a relationship, married or not, of any gender, living together or not. The same practitioners work with couples deciding whether to separate, and with couples who have already separated and are parenting together. Say which of those describes you at first contact.
Will the therapist say who is right?
No. The work is with what happens between two people rather than with a verdict on either of them. Effective work with couples needs its own theories and methods, drawn from research on relationships. Ask a practitioner how they handle it when you disagree in the room.
Can couples counselling be done online?
Yes, and many practitioners offer it. Couples therapy by video shows few significant differences from face-to-face sessions6. Symptom reduction, engagement and the therapeutic alliance are comparable.
Sitting in the same room at home suits some couples and not others. Ask what a practitioner offers.
Is premarital counselling a different thing?
Yes. It is preventive work with a relationship that is not in difficulty.
One trial followed engaged and newly married couples for three years. Those given no programme separated at a higher rate than those completing any of the three offered. A single relationship awareness session did as well as the two skills courses7.
Reviewers are cautious about how long such effects hold8.
What does marriage counselling cost in South Africa?
Each practitioner sets their own fee; no published tariff applies. Our guide to what therapy costs in South Africa sets out the usual ranges; ask each practitioner what a couples session costs.
Four things move a fee. The practitioner's registration category, their experience, the session length, and whether you meet in a room or online.
Most South African listings state an arrangement rather than an amount. A sliding scale, insurance accepted, a cash practice, or an invitation to enquire1.
Lower-fee couples services exist. FAMSA Outeniqua in George sees individuals, couples and families, free of charge for people who cannot afford a fee9. The UNIBS unit at the University of the Free State offers marital and family counselling in Bloemfontein10. The University Psychology Clinic at Nelson Mandela University in Port Elizabeth offers couples, marital and family therapy, delivered by supervised trainees11.
Where a practitioner states a fee on their listing, that figure is their own. Ask before the first session. Ask too whether the fee runs per session or per person in the room.
What happens in a marriage counselling session?
Both partners usually attend together. The practitioner works with what happens between you, not with one person's account of it.
Practice differs on what comes first. Some approaches open with a formal assessment that combines joint and individual meetings. Others use no set assessment stage4.
A first meeting normally covers three things. Why you are coming now, how each of you sees the problem, and what each of you wants changed.
Ask before you start whether the practitioner sees each partner alone. Ask what they do with what one partner tells them in private. Ask how you will know the work is done.
Will a medical aid pay for marriage counselling?
Your scheme decides, and the answer differs by scheme and by option. The Council for Medical Schemes regulates South African medical schemes, and publishes the difference between a medical scheme and a health insurance policy12.
Two things affect a claim. The practitioner's registration category, and how a session with two people is invoiced.
Ask your scheme whether that category is claimable on your option, and ask the practitioner what they can invoice.
When should we go for marriage counselling?
There is no threshold you have to cross first. Relationship distress is one of the commonest reasons adults seek psychotherapy at all13.
Distress between partners travels. It is associated with mood, anxiety and substance-use difficulties in the partners themselves, and with difficulties for children in the household4.
Couples come with a repeating argument, with an affair, with a decision about whether to stay together, and with none of those. You do not have to agree on the problem before you make contact.
What these practitioners record
18 of the 37 have included their registration on their profile.
Sessions here are offered in English, Afrikaans and isiXhosa.
Who registers therapists in South Africa?
The title you will see is Registered Counsellor. Search the register by name at Health Professions Council of South Africa (HPCSA). A current entry is that body's own published record of the person.
In South Africa psychologists and social workers must be registered to practise. No statute protects the plain title counsellor. See the South Africa page.
Nearby places and related listings
- Couples Counsellors in Cape Town
- Male Couples Counsellors in Cape Town
- Female Couples Psychologists in Cape Town
- Female ADHD Counsellors in Cape Town
- Female Addiction Counsellors in Cape Town
- Female Anxiety Counsellors in Cape Town
- Female Child Counsellors in Cape Town
- Female Depression Counsellors in Cape Town
- All therapists listed in Cape Town (535)
- Marriage counselling, Cape Town
References
[1] TherapyRoute's own records.
[2] Integrative Systemic Therapy in Practice, p. 120. Client-therapist similarities.
[3] National Health Service (United Kingdom). Counselling.
[11] University Psychology Clinic (UCLIN), Nelson Mandela University.
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Vincenzo (Enzo) Sinisi, Clinical Psychologist (HPCSA), Psychoanalyst (IPA/SAPA), Group Analyst (IGA)


