I Can Just Live With The Emotional Pain
Ever notice how we can tolerate emotional pain for longer than is necessary? Therapy can help us become aware of stories we tell ourselves that prolong the pain.
Dr Bonnie Wims
Chartered Psychologist
“A compassionate and empathetic Counseling Psychologist who works with all adults via online video.”
About Me
As a compassionate and empathetic Counseling Psychologist, I offer online video sessions for all adults. My aim is to create a space where you feel truly heard. Together, we can gently explore your concerns, finding clarity and new ways forward. My approach builds a warm, trusting connection, offering accessible support from your own environment.
Approach
Keeping sessions gentle and focused, I guide exploration through short, practical steps so we can untangle patterns together. Working from my New York base via secure English-language video, sessions move at a steady pace: listening, naming what’s most pressing, trying small in-between-session experiments and revisiting what feels useful. I bring calm structure when trauma, grief, addiction or anxiety make thinking messy, and I tune interventions to your rhythm. People seeking steady, compassionate collaboration often find this way of working supportive.
Contact Bonnie
Ask a quick question or arrange a time to meet.
Basic Information
Services
Services Offered:
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Coaching
A goal-oriented practice focused on identifying objectives, overcoming obstacles, and taking action, centred on the present and future rather than past difficulties.
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Counseling
A form of talk therapy providing a safe, confidential space to explore feelings, thoughts, and behaviours with a trained professional.
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Free Consultation
A no-cost initial session to meet the therapist, discuss needs, and decide whether they are the right fit before committing.
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Relationship Counseling
Counselling for couples or partners focused on improving communication, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional connection.
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Online Therapy
Therapy sessions conducted over video call, phone, or secure messaging, using the same professional methods delivered remotely.
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Psychology
The scientific study and clinical practice of understanding the mind, emotions, and behaviour, applied to promote healthier functioning.
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Therapy
Professional treatment for mental health concerns, providing a structured space for insight, emotional processing, and behavioural change.
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Works With:
- •Adults
- •Couples
- •Elderly
- •Individuals
- •Organisations
Area of Expertise
Scope of Practice:
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Abuse
Emotional, physical, or sexual mistreatment by another person that causes lasting psychological harm and disrupts a person's sense of safety.
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Addiction
A compulsive dependence on a substance or behaviour, such as alcohol, drugs, or gambling, that causes harmful consequences to health, relationships, or daily life.
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Anxiety
Persistent worry, nervousness, or fear that is disproportionate to the situation and interferes with daily functioning.
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Behaviour or Conduct Issues
Persistent patterns of defiant, aggressive, or rule-breaking behaviour in children or adolescents that significantly disrupt home, school, or social life.
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Grief & Loss
The emotional, physical, and psychological response to the death of a loved one or another significant loss.
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Mood Disorder
A category of mental health conditions, including depression and bipolar disorder, in which a person's emotional state is significantly and persistently disrupted.
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Career Issues
Work-related difficulties such as chronic dissatisfaction, conflict, burnout, uncertainty about direction, or the stress of career change.
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Relocation / Expat
The psychological challenges of moving to a new country or city, including loneliness, culture shock, identity shifts, and loss of social support.
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Trauma
The lasting psychological impact of deeply distressing events, such as violence, abuse, accidents, or disasters, that overwhelm a person's ability to cope.
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Professional Title:
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Chartered Psychologist
A psychologist who has achieved chartered status from a professional body, confirming advanced training and competence.
Qualifications
Regent's University London
Registrations
Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC)
Counseling Psychologist
