Yasir

Mr Yasir Ali

Psychotherapist

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Therapy with me is a place where you do not have to perform being okay, I offer a compassionate space where you can explore complex relational dynamics. With over 9+ years' experience, I bring wit and acceptance, witnessing your journey without judgment. This non-judgmental presence is a cornerstone of our work. It helps you navigate challenges and uncover your innate healing strength. Clients seeking a supportive, insightful guide for self-discovery will find a good match here.

About Me

I offer a compassionate, accepting space where you can begin to understand what has been difficult to carry alone. Much of my work focuses on how past hurt, trauma, and early relationships can shape the patterns we repeat, the roles we get pulled into, and the parts of ourselves we learn to hide, protect, or doubt. With over nine years of experience, I bring warmth, steadiness, and at times a gentle wit to the work. I work with adults in Lahore and online, in English and Hindi/Urdu. My aim is not to judge or fix you from a distance, but to sit with you carefully enough that things can start to make more sense. Therapy with me may be a good fit if you are looking for someone thoughtful, grounded, and honest. Someone who can help you understand yourself more deeply and reconnect with the strength that is already there, even if it has been hard to reach.

Approach

My approach is relational, depth-oriented, and integrative. Rather than working with labels alone, we pay attention to the patterns that keep repeating in your relationships, your reactions, and the different parts of you that show up in difficult moments. Much of the work involves exploring how early experiences, attachment patterns, family dynamics, and past hurts still live in the present. These patterns may appear in closeness and distance, conflict, withdrawal, jealousy, people-pleasing, anger, anxiety, or the feeling of becoming numb but overwhelmed. We look at these not only as “symptoms” to manage, but as signals that may be carrying something important about your history, your relationships, and your sense of self. I draw from relational and psychodynamic therapy to understand how past relationships shape present ones, including what happens between us in the room. I also use Internal Family Systems and parts-work to help you get to know the inner voices and protective parts that may criticize, caretake, shut down, become angry, or carry younger wounds underneath. The work is trauma-informed and shame-aware. This means we move carefully, at a pace that respects your capacity and safety, especially when working with emotional abuse, complex trauma, chronic shame, grief, anger, burnout, or mood shifts. The aim is not to force insight or rush change, but to understand what has been protecting you, what it has cost, and what might now be ready to soften. At times, if it feels useful, we may also work with dreams as a doorway into the unconscious. Not by forcing fixed meanings onto them, but by listening to their images and what they may be trying to express. Across all of this, my intention is to offer a steady, curious space where your shame, confusion, contradictions, and protective patterns are welcome. Therapy becomes a place to understand how you became who you are, and what may now want to change.
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Basic Information

In-person & Online

Services

I offer individual therapy, couples therapy, and clinical supervision. Across these services, my work is relational, depth-oriented, shame-aware, and paced with care. Individual Therapy for Adults: I work with adults who are trying to make sense of emotional pain, relationship patterns, anxiety, anger, shame, grief, burnout, and the parts of themselves they may have learned to hide or manage alone. Therapy may focus on low mood, emotional overwhelm, numbness, self-doubt, people-pleasing, jealousy, withdrawal, conflict, or the feeling that you are functioning on the outside but struggling inside. Together, we look not only at symptoms, but at what they may be trying to signal about your life, history, relationships, and ways of coping. Relationship and Attachment Patterns: Many people come to therapy because something keeps repeating in their relationships. This may include fear of closeness, fear of abandonment, resentment, anger, withdrawal, difficulty trusting, or feeling unseen. We explore how these patterns formed and how they show up now, in romantic, family, work, and friendship dynamics. Trauma, Shame, and Emotional Wounds: I work gently with the impact of emotional abuse, complex trauma, chronic shame, and painful early experiences. The pace matters here. We do not rush into what feels too much. We work carefully with what your system can hold, while understanding the ways you learned to survive, protect yourself, or stay small. Parts Work and Inner Conflict: Sometimes the difficulty is not only between you and other people, but within you. One part wants closeness, another pulls away. One part criticizes, another collapses. One part wants change, another fears it. Parts work helps us understand these inner conflicts with less shame and more clarity. Couples Therapy: I work with couples who want to understand the patterns they keep getting caught in — conflict, distance, repeated misunderstandings, emotional shutdown, resentment, jealousy, mistrust, or feeling alone inside the relationship. The focus is not on finding who is to blame. We slow the pattern down, listen for what each person is protecting, and make space for the hurt, longing, fear, anger, and unmet needs underneath. Couples therapy can help partners speak more honestly, listen with less defensiveness, and begin to understand the cycle they are in rather than only reacting from inside it. Clinical Supervision: I offer clinical supervision for therapists who want a reflective, relational space to think about their client work, therapeutic presence, countertransference, stuck points, shame dynamics, rupture and repair, and the emotional demands of the work. Supervision with me is not only about technique. It is also about what happens in the room, what gets stirred in the therapist, and how to stay thoughtful, ethical, and emotionally available without losing oneself in the work.

Services Offered:

  • Counseling

    A form of talk therapy providing a safe, confidential space to explore feelings, thoughts, and behaviours with a trained professional.

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  • Group Therapy

    Therapy conducted with a small group of people who share similar concerns, using peer interaction and diverse perspectives as part of the healing process.

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  • Psychodynamic Therapy

    A therapy that explores how past experiences and unconscious patterns shape current feelings, relationships, and behaviour.

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  • Individual Therapy

    One-on-one therapy sessions between a client and a therapist, focused on that person's specific concerns and goals.

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  • Training

    Professional development programmes for mental health practitioners, including workshops, courses, and continuing education.

Works With:

  • Adults
  • Individuals
  • Couples
  • Groups

Area of Expertise

Scope of Practice:

  • Anger

    An intense emotional response to perceived threat, injustice, or frustration that, when persistent or uncontrolled, can damage relationships and well-being.

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  • Anxiety

    Persistent worry, nervousness, or fear that is disproportionate to the situation and interferes with daily functioning.

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  • Mood Disorder

    A category of mental health conditions, including depression and bipolar disorder, in which a person's emotional state is significantly and persistently disrupted.

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  • Relationship Issues

    Difficulties in romantic relationships, including communication problems, trust breakdowns, conflict patterns, or uncertainty about the relationship's future.

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  • Trauma

    The lasting psychological impact of deeply distressing events, such as violence, abuse, accidents, or disasters, that overwhelm a person's ability to cope.

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  • Body Image

    How a person perceives, thinks, and feels about their physical appearance. When persistently negative, it can drive distress, avoidance, and disordered eating.

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  • Burnout

    A state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged stress, characterised by detachment, cynicism, and reduced effectiveness.

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  • Codependency

    A relational pattern in which a person's sense of identity and self-worth becomes excessively tied to caring for or controlling another person, often at their own expense.

  • Control Issues

    A persistent need to control situations, people, or outcomes, typically driven by underlying anxiety, fear of uncertainty, or past experiences of helplessness.

  • Grief & Loss

    The emotional, physical, and psychological response to the death of a loved one or another significant loss.

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Professional Title:

  • Psychotherapist

    A professional trained to provide in-depth therapy that explores patterns in thoughts, emotions, and relationships to produce lasting change.

Credentials

Registrations

British Association for Counseling & Psychotherapy

Counsellor; Psychotherapist

Registration: 00961490

Qualifications

Postgraduate Diploma

Internal Family Systems Institute

Year: 2025

Level 6 Diploma in Counselling Supervision

Counselling & Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body (CPCAB) UK

Year: 2024

Level 5 Diploma in Integrative Psychotherapy for Independent Practice

Counselling & Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body (CPCAB) UK

Year: 2022

Level 4 Diploma in Counselling

Counselling & Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body (CPCAB) UK

Year: 2019

Memberships

IFS Institute (IFSI)

Graduate Member

Service Areas

Holistic Connect

In-person & Online

Gulberg 2

Lahore, Punjab

Pakistan

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Gulberg 2, Lahore, Pakistan