Marriage Counsellors & Couples Therapists in Manila, the Philippines

Both partners in the room is the standard arrangement, with rules agreed beforehand about any separate contact with one of you ¹. Ask what happens to what you say in a private message or call.

Sessions are commonly about an hour and often weekly, and many approaches expect a course of work over months. Expect the first sessions to be about history and pattern rather than solutions.

Online sessions are widely offered, which reaches couples on other islands and couples where one partner works abroad. Different models produce broadly similar results for relationship distress ², so fit and practicality are reasonable grounds for choosing.

Titles here are licensed, and the licence can be checked online.

Only a person licensed by the Professional Regulation Commission may use the title psychologist ³. Psychometricians are licensed separately by the same board. Guidance counsellors are licensed by the Commission's Board of Guidance and Counseling. Physicians, including psychiatrists, are licensed through the Board of Medicine ⁴.

The Commission's verification service lets you check a name and licence yourself. Every listing here shows the category the practitioner states, so check the category first, then verify the licence.

Titles you will see include Registered Psychologist (RPsych) and Registered Guidance Counselor. Search the registers by name at PRC - Board of Psychology (PRC-Psych) or PRC - Board of Guidance and Counseling (PRC-Guidance). A current entry is that body's own published record of the person.

Practitioners set their own fees and we publish no average.

Our guide to what therapy costs in the Philippines sets out the ranges people are quoted and what moves them ⁵. Read it first. Then ask each practitioner what a session for two people costs and how long it runs. A couples session is often longer than an individual one.

Fees differ between Metro Manila and the rest of the country and between practitioner categories. Nothing here computes a figure for you.

There are cases where a joint session should not be the first appointment.

Moderate to severe aggression between partners is one reason ¹. Active alcohol or other substance misuse is another. So are a continuing affair and psychotic symptoms.

A practitioner should ask about these before seeing a couple together.

If one partner is frightened of the other, the safety route comes first. The law here gives you one that starts in your own barangay. Seeing someone on your own is a normal first step and not a verdict on the marriage.

The couples-qualified practitioners on our own listings sit in Quezon City and Cebu City, with a scattering elsewhere ⁶. Nearly all record Tagalog alongside English. Agree the language in advance, particularly if one partner would rather not do difficult conversations in English.

Because the numbers outside the main cities are small, sessions online are often what makes couples work reachable at all.

Titles here are licensed and the licence can be checked online.

Only a person licensed by the Professional Regulation Commission may use the title psychologist, and guidance counsellors are licensed by the same Commission's own board³. Its verification service lets you check a name yourself.

Every listing shows the category a practitioner states. Read the category first, then verify the licence.

The listed couples-qualified practitioners sit mainly in Quezon City and Cebu City⁶.

Across an archipelago, video is often what makes couples work reachable. Psychotherapy delivered live by video reaches outcomes close to in-person work, across therapies in general⁷.

Ask whether both of you may join from separate places.

Four things move a fee. The practitioner's registration category, their experience, the session length, and whether you meet in a room or online.

One lower-fee route is on our own record. The Ruben M. Tanseco, S.J. Center for Family Ministries in Manila offers pastoral counselling for couples and families, on a donation basis and by appointment⁸.

Where a practitioner states a fee on their listing, that figure is their own. Ask before the first session. Ask too whether the fee runs per session or per person in the room.

The practitioner works with what happens between you, not with one person's account of it.

Practice differs on what comes first. Some approaches open with a formal assessment that combines joint and individual meetings. Others use no set assessment stage¹.

A first meeting normally covers three things. Why you are coming now, how each of you sees the problem, and what each of you wants changed.

Ask before you start whether the practitioner sees each partner alone. Ask how you will know the work is done.

PhilHealth publishes its benefit packages, inpatient and outpatient⁹. We hold no source showing a package that covers a counselling session for a couple.

Private health cards and employer plans set their own outpatient benefits.

Ask your provider whether outpatient consultations with your practitioner's category are covered, and ask the practitioner what they are able to invoice.

There is no threshold you have to cross first. Relationship distress is one of the commonest reasons adults seek psychotherapy at all².

Distress between partners travels. It is associated with mood, anxiety and substance-use difficulties in the partners themselves, and with difficulties for children in the household¹.

Couples come with a repeating argument, with an affair, with a decision about whether to stay together, and with none of those. You do not have to agree on the problem before you make contact.

Where a partner or a child is being hurt or threatened, the law here provides a route that starts close to home.

The route is the Anti-Violence Against Women and Their Children Act. Under it, the Punong Barangay issues a barangay protection order on the day it is applied for. Barangay officials and law enforcers must respond at once to a call for help, and must enforce the order.

The same Act obliges the Department of Social Welfare and Development and the local government to provide temporary shelter, counselling and psychosocial services. It also gives a right to legal help from the Public Attorney's Office.

For a child there is the Makabata helpline of the Council for the Welfare of Children ¹⁰. It takes reports of abuse and gives referral and psychosocial support.

We name the Act and the routes rather than a hotline number. The numbers published for this purpose disagreed with each other at every source we could reach.