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How To Control Your Anger


#Anger Updated on Sep 11, 2020

This five-step video guide will help you to control and express your anger in a way that will protect you, your relationships and resolve what underlies your anger.


This video guides you through a five-step programme to help you to control and then express your anger in a way that will protect you, your relationships and resolve the problems that underlie your anger.




In this video I explain why we feel anger. Most of us are uncomfortable to admit feelings of anger, let alone feel them. As a result, we struggle to express anger in a helpful way often swinging between periods of passive aggression and actual aggression with neither resulting in anyone getting their needs met.


Yet anger is key to the survival of the human race, it alerts us to mistreatment and it’s energy motivates us to protect ourselves, so safeguarding both our physical and emotional health and wellbeing. So, despite a desire in many of us to suppress anger or deny it completely, we must learn to embrace it and use it for the purpose that nature has intended.


Understanding why something happens put us in a much stronger position to manage it, so my aim in this video is to give you an understanding of anger that will enable you to live more comfortably, calmly and productively with it.

If you find this video helpful and would like to know more about anger and its management, please take a look at my YouTube video.



Dr Emma Gray is the Lead Clinical Psychologist at The British CBT & Counselling Service , a team of Doctors of Clinical and Counselling Psychology offering up to date and proven to be effective treatments for all mental health problems. We are here to help adults, children, families and couples with face-to-face sessions, Skype and free video therapy courses. I also share mental health info, techniques and self-help tips on Instagram, IGTV (@dremmagray) and YouTube .





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Read Article: Why Do People Lash Out: What's Behind Anger?

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