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Does your partner forget your bd, mock your habits, criticize your looks?


#Love, #Relationships, #Self-esteem Updated on May 3, 2025
Professional portrait of Tetiana Vazhynska, a psychologist from Kyiv, focusing on emotions and mental health services.

Tetiana Vazhynska

Psychologist

Kyiv, Ukraine

Low self-esteem is taking away our chance to build the relationship we dream about. You can change that in therapy. Together, we dig deep to understand the roots of the problem and find the best way to heal it — step by step, with care and support.


And yet... You keep putting up with it, hoping that one day he’ll finally understand, realise, or change the way he treats you?

But time keeps passing — and nothing changes.

You’re constantly feeling hurt, angry, or quietly crying when no one sees.

You think, “Maybe I just ended up with the wrong guy — other women seem to have more loving, caring partners.”

 

But what if I told you… it’s not really about him?

What if the real issue is your low self-worth?

You could date a dozen different people — but unless you address the root of the problem, the pattern won’t go away.

Because your partner simply reflects the way you treat yourself.

✨ If you don’t believe you deserve gifts or flowers without a reason,

✨ If you’re constantly working like a hamster on a wheel, without rest or compassion for yourself —

Why would your partner treat you any differently?

The truth is — he won’t.

 

These are the issues I work on with my clients in personal therapy.

Therapy gives us the chance to dig deep — to find the place and time where your self-worth was damaged or never allowed to grow.

Sometimes it’s about childhood wounds, toxic family members, or hurtful experiences at school.

Together, we rebuild.

We identify the weak spots and help your self-worth grow stronger, steadier.

This is what leads to real change.

You no longer need to beg for attention or affection — you start receiving it naturally.

Because you now know you deserve it.

 

💬 If this story feels familiar — if you're struggling with something similar — I’m here for you.

Together, we’ll uncover the harmful patterns and gently rewrite them.

Message me to book a consultation — I’d love to help you find a lighter, stronger way forward.




Professional portrait of Tetiana Vazhynska, a psychologist from Kyiv, focusing on emotions and mental health services.

Tetiana is a qualified Psychologist, based in Kyiv, Ukraine.

With a commitment to mental health, Vazhynska provides services in English, Russian and Ukranian, including Coaching (Life), Counselling and Individual and Couple Therapy.

Vazhynska has expertise in Anger Management Issues, Behavioural and Emotional Problems, Divorce and/or Separation, Emotional Overwhelm, Life Balance, Personal Growth, Relationships and Marriage Problems, Relationship Counselling, Self-Confidence and Trauma.

Click here to schedule a session with Vazhynska.












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