Away from Home
Registered Clinical Psychologist
São Paulo, Brazil
❝Living away from home cab be an experience filled ith challenges and transformations❞
Living away from home can be an experience filled with challenges. Regardless of your definition of home—whether it's your house or even your homeland country—leaving home always brings disruptions.
- The Impact of Leaving Home
- Transformations in Relationships
- Adjusting to a New Environment
- Growth and Self-Discovery
- Caring for Ourselves and Others
- Building Support Networks
- Resource
The Impact of Leaving Home
It can change routines, new needs can appear, habits can shift, relationships can improve or worsen, and new cultures can disrupt our worldview. These changes profoundly influence how we see ourselves and relate to ourselves.
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Transformations in Relationships
When we decide to leave our home, we open ourselves up to a series of transformations. This rupture can bring a fresh perspective to the relationships we leave behind and highlight dependencies we thought we had overcome. Relationships can emerge differently, both with those who stayed and those who also decided to leave.
Adjusting to a New Environment
Although change is often desired and planned, accommodating and building the feeling of being at home in a new environment takes time, negotiations, and adjustments.
Creating the feeling of being home can be slow and fraught with challenges, but it is important to remember that some things will never be the same—and that’s okay. Accepting that this new phase will always differ from the previous one is essential. The construction of the feeling of being at home involves dealing with various losses and mourning for the parts of our lives left behind.
Growth and Self-Discovery
Although living away from home can initially be uncomfortable and challenging, this experience offers significant growth. We can learn to know ourselves better, value our origins, and develop new skills in adaptation, resilience, and overcoming challenges. Amid all the changes, we find new ways to feel at home wherever we are.
Caring for Ourselves and Others
Sometimes, creating a new sense of home can be more difficult than we think, last longer, or involve managing relationships and taking care of children. During these times, it is necessary not only to take care of yourself but also to create space to care for those who are going through the process of transformation and moving with us.
Building Support Networks
Help may be needed, and it is essential to strengthen support networks. In these cases, it is crucial to know the possibilities for building support and care networks in the new city or country. This approach can help make the adaptation process less lonely and provide a sense of community.
Now, explore how to build and maintain helpful community connections abroad in Part 2.
- Part 1 - Important support networks for smooth transitions to a new country < - You are here
- Part 2 - Build and maintain helpful community connections abroad
- Part 3 - Six simple steps for creating reliable support systems
Resource
WebMD - discusses how homesickness can trigger feelings of sadness, anxiety, or even depression, especially when individuals are away from their support system. The article also provides tips for coping, such as staying connected with loved ones and creating a sense of familiarity in the new environment.
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About The Author
“"I am a Clinical Psychologist registered (CRP 06/101877) with 7 years of experience and an academic background dedicated to mental health and social suffering. I hold a PhD in Mental Health, featuring a doctoral research period in Italy, where I specialized in substance use disorders and severe psychological distress through the lenses of Health Psychology, Social Psychology. My clinical practice is integrative and pluralistic, combining the structured framework of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) with the depth of Schizoanalysis and a strong theoretical foundation in Psychoanalysis (Freud, Winnicott and Bion). As a specialist in Human Sexuality, I have extensive experience supporting the LGBTQIA+ community and individuals in social vulnerability and lately migration with the perspective of Intercultural Psychology. This diverse toolkit allows me to offer versatile interventions, ranging from Psychological First Aid and Brief Therapy to Long-Term Psychotherapy. My approach is grounded in ethics, intersectionality, and scientific evidence—supported by several peer-reviewed publications. I provide a sensitive, non-judgmental space attentive to the complexities of the human experience.”
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