Tholoana

Ms Tholoana Mokhesi

Clinical Psychologist

An experienced and competent therapist working with individuals, families and couples going through life challenges.

About Me

This experienced Clinical Psychologist supports individuals, families, and couples navigating life's many complexities. They offer a calm, collaborative space to explore difficult emotions and find new pathways forward. Clients facing personal struggles or relationship hurdles find a clear, supportive approach. This therapist helps them build resilience and develop practical strategies for lasting change.

Approach

I guide therapy with a steady, practical rhythm that helps people untangle emotions and recognise unhelpful patterns. In Pretoria I meet adolescents, adults, couples and families, and offer sessions in English, Sesotho and seTswana to make space accessible and understood. Sessions blend careful assessment with focused conversation, short reflective tasks and concrete steps to shift thinking, behaviour and relationships; between appointments I share brief observations and small experiments to try. This way of working often suits those navigating anxiety, grief, relationship strain or burnout.
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Basic Information

Services


Services Offered:

  • Psych & Diagnostic Assessment

    Formal psychological testing to identify conditions, understand cognitive and emotional functioning, and guide treatment planning.

  • Conflict Management

    Structured approaches to resolving disputes and improving communication between people in conflict, whether in relationships, families, or workplaces.

  • Counseling

    A form of talk therapy providing a safe, confidential space to explore feelings, thoughts, and behaviours with a trained professional.

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  • Relationship Counseling

    Counselling for couples or partners focused on improving communication, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional connection.

  • Psychotherapy

    In-depth therapeutic work that explores patterns in thoughts, emotions, and relationships to produce lasting psychological change.

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Works With:

  • Adolescents
  • Adults
  • Communities
  • Couples
  • Families
  • Individuals

Area of Expertise


Scope of Practice:

  • Adolescent Therapy

    Therapy designed for teenagers, using age-appropriate methods to address issues like anxiety, identity, peer pressure, and family conflict.

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  • Anxiety

    Persistent worry, nervousness, or fear that is disproportionate to the situation and interferes with daily functioning.

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  • Behaviour or Conduct Issues

    Persistent patterns of defiant, aggressive, or rule-breaking behaviour in children or adolescents that significantly disrupt home, school, or social life.

  • Grief & Loss

    The emotional, physical, and psychological response to the death of a loved one or another significant loss.

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  • Mood Disorder

    A category of mental health conditions, including depression and bipolar disorder, in which a person's emotional state is significantly and persistently disrupted.

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  • Stress / Burnout

    The body and mind's response to prolonged or excessive demands. When sustained, it can lead to emotional exhaustion, detachment, and reduced functioning (burnout).

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  • HIV / AIDS Support

    The psychological impact of living with HIV/AIDS, including stigma, disclosure, medication adherence, and emotional well-being.

  • Personal Development

    The ongoing process of self-awareness, self-improvement, and reaching one's potential, pursued not because something is wrong but to live more fully.

  • Relationship Issues

    Difficulties in romantic relationships, including communication problems, trust breakdowns, conflict patterns, or uncertainty about the relationship's future.

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Professional Title:

  • Clinical Psychologist

    An advanced mental health professional trained to assess and treat a wide range of difficulties, from anxiety and depression to trauma and complex conditions.

Qualifications


University of Limpopo

Registrations


Health Professions Council of Namibia

Clinical Psychologist

Service Area


BMR Family Health Clinic

In-person

Soshanguve

Pretoria, Gauteng

South Africa