Shay Rees-Davies
Sexologist
“I am dedicated to supporting individuals & couples through the complexities of relationships and sexuality, and in navigating the profound impact of trauma. Whether you're seeking to heal, discover, or express your authentic self, I provide a humanistic approach that focuses on embracing your personal truth.”
About Me
I am a sexologist and counsellor based in Scottburgh South, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa. I treat relationship issues, abuse, anger, cross-cultural conflicts and divorce. I provide psycho-legal support, trauma counseling and sex therapy.
Approach
My work centres on helping people reconnect to their values and bodies after shock or conflict, shaping therapy around what matters most to you. From my base in Scottburgh, KwaZulu‑Natal and online in English, sessions are paced to your rhythm and steadily held. We move between grounding practices, practical skill‑building and clear safety planning, with space for advocacy-focused discussion or preparation for legal processes when relevant. Those navigating cultural tension, rupture or questions about sexuality often find this steady, practical companionship helpful.
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Basic Information
Services
Psychosomatic Support for:
Sexual Dysfunction and Pain Disorders
Compulsive Sexual Behaviors
Relationship Conflict Resolution
Navigating Perimenopause
Sexual Trauma
Overcoming shame (associated with religious indoctrination, substance abuse, compulsive/risky sexual behavior)
Exploring Sexual Identity (including sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, gender roles)
Stress & Anxiety
Forensic Reporting for RAF cases (South Africa only)
Facilitation of workshops (corporate & private)
Services Offered:
- •Psycho-Legal
- •Advocacy
- •Conflict Management
- •Counseling
- •Trauma Counseling
- •Sex Therapy
- •Somatic Psychotherapy
- •Online Therapy
- •Personal Development
Works With:
- •Adults
- •Communities
- •Couples
Area of Expertise
Scope of Practice:
- •Relationship Issues
- •Abuse
- •Addiction
- •Anger
- •Cross-Cultural
- •Divorce Counseling
- •Psycho-Legal
- •LGBTQI+ Support
- •Relationship Counseling
- •Trauma
Professional Title:
- •Sexologist
Qualifications
Academy for Sexology (International)
Registrations
Council for Sexual Health Professions
Counsellor; Sexologist
Memberships
Council for Sexual Health Professions (CSHP)
Full Member
Membership: 21001
European Federation of Sexology (EFS)
Full Member
