Ellen

Ellen Kouridakis

Licensed Psychologist

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“Licensed Psychologist MSc., specializing in Systemic Psychotherapy for relationships, life transitions, and narcissistic abuse. Recipient of the Gold Company Award 2025 for Psychologists — Client Satisfaction Excellence. Working with individuals and couples internationally, across diverse cultural, social and personal backgrounds, I provide support through major life transitions, including divorce, career change, and expatriate transitions, as well as burnout, emotional exhaustion and trauma. My approach integrates Systemic Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), with an emphasis on self-awareness, attachment styles and assertive communication. When we understand what is shaping us, we create the possibility of choosing how we respond, rather than remaining governed by patterns that no longer serve us.”

About me

In my sessions, I integrate psychotherapy with psychoeducation, with a particular focus on negotiation as an essential life skill. I work with interpersonal challenges including divorce, family dynamics, parenting and crisis management, as well as major life transitions such as job loss and career change. I also support clients who are healing from relationships involving narcissism and emotional abuse, helping them recognise patterns, regain clarity and develop ways of relating and responding that benefit them. As a Psychology Instructor, I provide education to parents, teachers and mental health professionals on topics including identity development, self-esteem, positive psychology, child and adolescent psychology, bullying, personality models and related areas. A significant part of my clinical practice involves complex relationship dynamics, particularly narcissism and associated forms of psychological abuse, including manipulation, coercive control, emotional invalidation and gaslighting. These experiences can leave you questioning your boundaries, your choices, even your sense of identity. I do not believe that therapists hold all the answers. From a systemic perspective, our role is to ask the right questions that help you discover answers that make sense within your own world, while developing healthy and sustainable ways of coping. Becoming a mother at 24 taught me that growth is rarely linear and that every step forward matters. What I can promise you is this: I will listen, support you and challenge you when needed. I will not sugarcoat things, but I will be beside you with compassion as you step into the discomfort that can lead to meaningful change.

Approach

I practice from a systemic perspective, understanding psychological difficulties in relation to the social, cultural and interpersonal contexts in which they develop. Through guided inquiry, including Socratic questioning, exploration of meaning and identification of recurring dynamics, we examine how thoughts, emotions and behaviours interact and what sustains them. An attachment-informed approach helps you recognise your attachment style and understand how it shapes your expectations of intimacy, emotional responses and behaviour across different relationships. These patterns may be expressed differently with romantic partners, parents, friends or colleagues. The therapeutic relationship itself is an integral part of our work. I do not position myself as a detached observer. Rather, I actively participate in the therapeutic system, using the interaction between us as a source of clinical insight. I believe that the way we understand our experiences shapes the possibilities we see for ourselves. Therapy can help us revisit established narratives, develop new meanings and create greater freedom in how we respond to the present and the future. In this sense, I believe it is never too late to create a good childhood. My aim is to foster self-awareness, clarity, self-compassion, resilience and agency. Like Virgil guiding Dante through the Inferno, I see my role as a therapist as accompanying you through difficult territory, offering perspective and direction while respecting your autonomy. I engage in ongoing personal therapy and professional supervision as part of my commitment to ethical clinical practice.
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Basic information

Languages:

English, Greek

Fees:

Direct payment

In-person & Online

Services

Individual therapy, Relationship Counseling, Parenting Support, Career Coaching and Professional Development, Mentoring for Personal Growth

Services Offered:

  • Counseling

    A form of talk therapy providing a safe, confidential space to explore feelings, thoughts, and behaviours with a trained professional.

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  • Crisis Counseling

    Immediate, short-term psychological support during an acute mental health crisis such as a panic episode, suicidal thoughts, or overwhelming distress.

  • Relationship Counseling

    Counselling for couples or partners focused on improving communication, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional connection.

  • Psychotherapy

    In-depth therapeutic work that explores patterns in thoughts, emotions, and relationships to produce lasting psychological change.

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  • Individual Therapy

    One-on-one therapy sessions between a client and a therapist, focused on that person's specific concerns and goals.

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  • Psychoeducation

    Structured information provided about a mental health condition (what it is, why it occurs, and what strategies can help) as part of the therapeutic process.

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  • Divorce Counseling

    Counselling for individuals or couples going through separation or divorce, addressing the emotional, practical, and relational dimensions.

  • Stress Management

    Techniques and strategies for managing the body and mind's response to excessive demands, including relaxation, cognitive restructuring, and lifestyle changes.

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Works With:

  • Adults
  • Couples
  • Parents

Area of expertise

Scope of Practice:

  • Behaviour or Conduct Issues

    Persistent patterns of defiant, aggressive, or rule-breaking behaviour in children or adolescents that significantly disrupt home, school, or social life.

  • Divorce Counseling

    Counselling for individuals or couples going through separation or divorce, addressing the emotional, practical, and relational dimensions.

  • Relocation / Expat

    The psychological challenges of moving to a new country or city, including loneliness, culture shock, identity shifts, and loss of social support.

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  • Life Transitions

    Major life changes, such as relocation, retirement, parenthood, or career shifts, that disrupt routine and require psychological adjustment.

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  • Online Therapy

    Therapy sessions conducted over video call, phone, or secure messaging, using the same professional methods delivered remotely.

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  • Parenting Support

    Guidance for the psychological challenges of raising children, including discipline, communication, co-parenting, and managing the emotional demands of parenthood.

  • Personality Difficulties

    Long-standing patterns of thinking, feeling, and relating to others that cause persistent distress or problems in relationships and daily life.

  • Relationship Issues

    Difficulties in romantic relationships, including communication problems, trust breakdowns, conflict patterns, or uncertainty about the relationship's future.

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Professional Title:

  • Licensed Psychologist

    A psychologist licensed to independently assess, diagnose, and treat psychological conditions.

Credentials

Registrations

Region of Central Macedonia – General Directorate of Public Health and Social Welfare

Licensed Psychologist

Greek Association of Psychologists (SEPS)

Regular Member

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European Association for Aviation Psychology (EAAP)

Affiliate Member

Qualifications

Bachelor of Arts in Psychology

European University Cyprus

Year: 2021

Master of Science in Social Work

University of Nicosia

Year: 2018

Memberships

Association of Greek Psychologists (SEPS)

Full Member

American Psychological Association (APA)

Affiliate Member

Service Areas

Ellen Kouridakis MSc, Psychologist-Psychotherapist | Expat Therapy

In-person & Online

Thessaloniki, Greece

Greece

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Thessaloniki, Greece