Phyllis

Dr Phyllis Gildston

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

2 PhDs, 4 licenses, Professor Emer., BC, CUNY, 25+ years experience CBT/DBT/IMAGO/DBT/EMDR/ Reiki/ Hypnotherapy, Art Therapy &More. FREE CONSULT. SPECIALIZE IN SHORT-TERM THERAPY. Fees: 30 Minute Session $95 Out-of-Network Provider for all insurance companies

About Me

I help individuals and couples address challenges through focused, short-term therapy. With over 25 years of experience and diverse approaches like CBT and EMDR, I pinpoint core issues. My aim is to equip you with practical tools, finding clarity and lasting change efficiently. Sessions offer immediate insights you can apply. This approach suits those seeking direct, effective support without a long-term commitment.

Approach

To make brief work effective, I structure each session around one or two concrete goals and immediate, usable strategies you can try between visits. In Great Neck or via secure online video we work in English at a direct, steady pace—focused reflection, short experiential exercises, and clear feedback so you notice change quickly. Sessions often include gentle somatic checks, brief guided imagery or focused skill drills, plus short at-home experiments to test what shifts. This way of working fits people facing anxiety, relationship strain, chronic pain or trauma who want practical, timely results.
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Basic Information

Services


Services Offered:

  • Art Therapy

    A form of therapy that uses visual art-making (drawing, painting, sculpture) as a means of expression and emotional processing.

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  • Dream Analysis

    A technique that explores the themes, symbols, and emotions in dreams to uncover unconscious thoughts and unresolved feelings.

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  • Free Consultation

    A no-cost initial session to meet the therapist, discuss needs, and decide whether they are the right fit before committing.

  • Hypnosis

    A therapeutic technique that uses guided relaxation and focused attention to access the subconscious mind and facilitate positive change.

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  • Relationship Counseling

    Counselling for couples or partners focused on improving communication, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional connection.

  • Pain Management

    Psychological approaches to chronic pain that address the emotional, cognitive, and behavioural dimensions of living with persistent pain.

  • Psychoanalysis

    An in-depth therapy that explores unconscious patterns, early experiences, and inner conflicts to produce lasting psychological change, typically involving frequent sessions.

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  • Psych & Diagnostic Assessment

    Formal psychological testing to identify conditions, understand cognitive and emotional functioning, and guide treatment planning.

  • EMDR

    Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing, a therapy that uses guided eye movements to help the brain process and integrate traumatic memories.

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  • Imago Relationship Therapy

    A couples therapy approach based on the idea that relationship conflicts are rooted in unmet childhood needs, using structured dialogue to improve understanding and connection.

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Works With:

  • All ages

Area of Expertise


Scope of Practice:

  • Abuse

    Emotional, physical, or sexual mistreatment by another person that causes lasting psychological harm and disrupts a person's sense of safety.

  • Addiction

    A compulsive dependence on a substance or behaviour, such as alcohol, drugs, or gambling, that causes harmful consequences to health, relationships, or daily life.

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  • Anger

    An intense emotional response to perceived threat, injustice, or frustration that, when persistent or uncontrolled, can damage relationships and well-being.

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  • Anxiety

    Persistent worry, nervousness, or fear that is disproportionate to the situation and interferes with daily functioning.

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  • Relationship Issues

    Difficulties in romantic relationships, including communication problems, trust breakdowns, conflict patterns, or uncertainty about the relationship's future.

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  • Grief & Loss

    The emotional, physical, and psychological response to the death of a loved one or another significant loss.

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  • Chronic Illness

    A long-term health condition (e.g., diabetes, autoimmune disease, chronic pain) that persists over time and affects physical, emotional, and social well-being.

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  • Mood Disorder

    A category of mental health conditions, including depression and bipolar disorder, in which a person's emotional state is significantly and persistently disrupted.

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  • Eating Disorders

    A group of conditions, including anorexia, bulimia, and binge eating, involving disturbed eating behaviours and a distorted relationship with food and body image.

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  • PTSD

    Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, a condition that develops after a traumatic event, causing flashbacks, nightmares, hypervigilance, and emotional numbness.

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Professional Title:

  • Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

    A therapist licensed to work with couples and families on relationship difficulties, communication, and family dynamics.

Qualifications


CUNY; Columbia U.; Prof. Emer. CUNY; Certifications: AAMFT; IRI; EMDRIA; AADAC; & MoreASCH; AAPM; IHT; ASHA

Registrations


American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT); IRI; EMDRIA; BINY; American Psychological Association (APA); NAADAC; ASCH; AAPM; IHT; & More

4 licenses; Certified: Marriage & Family Therapist; Imago Relationship Ther; Biofeedback; Professional Counselor; Substance Abuse Professional; Approved Consultant in Hypnosis; Chronic Pain Management; Reiki Master; Speech/Language Pathology;

Service Area


North Shore Center

In-person & Online

Town Of North Hempstead, New York

United States