Christine Urja

Ms Christine Urja Refalo

Psychotherapist

Urja is an experienced psychotherapist and relationship counsellor. She is highly skilled and brings her warmth and care to all her clients.

About Me

Urja is an experienced psychotherapist and relationship counsellor, bringing genuine warmth and care to her work. With an MA in Gestalt Therapy, she skillfully guides individuals and couples. Clients can explore their present experiences and deepen understanding of themselves and others. Her approach helps navigate complex emotions, find clarity in relationships, and foster meaningful personal growth. This supportive space is ideal for those seeking compassionate guidance.

Approach

There’s a calm, attentive way I hold sessions so you feel seen and safe while we explore what’s happening now. I work from Coffs Harbour and offer sessions in English, both in-person and online, keeping a steady pace that balances feeling and understanding. In-session we notice bodily signals, trace patterns in relationships and responses to trauma or loss, and set small, practical steps between meetings to test new ways of relating. This approach suits adults and couples seeking clear, compassionate change.
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Basic Information

Services


Services Offered:

  • Counseling

    A form of talk therapy providing a safe, confidential space to explore feelings, thoughts, and behaviours with a trained professional.

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  • Crisis Counseling

    Immediate, short-term psychological support during an acute mental health crisis such as a panic episode, suicidal thoughts, or overwhelming distress.

  • Relationship Counseling

    Counselling for couples or partners focused on improving communication, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional connection.

  • Trauma Counseling

    Counselling specifically for people affected by traumatic events, focused on processing what happened and reducing symptoms like flashbacks and hypervigilance.

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  • Wellness Support

    Holistic support focused on overall well-being, including stress management, lifestyle balance, and building sustainable healthy habits.

  • Mindfulness

    The practice of paying deliberate attention to the present moment without judgement, used to reduce stress and increase awareness of automatic reactions.

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  • Online Therapy

    Therapy sessions conducted over video call, phone, or secure messaging, using the same professional methods delivered remotely.

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  • Psychoeducation

    Structured information provided about a mental health condition (what it is, why it occurs, and what strategies can help) as part of the therapeutic process.

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  • Individual Therapy

    One-on-one therapy sessions between a client and a therapist, focused on that person's specific concerns and goals.

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  • Skills Training

    Structured programmes that teach practical coping and life skills, such as emotional regulation, interpersonal effectiveness, and distress tolerance.

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Works With:

  • Adults
  • Couples
  • Individuals

Area of Expertise


Scope of Practice:

  • Abuse

    Emotional, physical, or sexual mistreatment by another person that causes lasting psychological harm and disrupts a person's sense of safety.

  • Adoption

    The process of legally becoming a parent to a child who is not biologically yours, which can raise complex emotions around identity, attachment, and belonging for all involved.

  • Anger

    An intense emotional response to perceived threat, injustice, or frustration that, when persistent or uncontrolled, can damage relationships and well-being.

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  • Relationship Issues

    Difficulties in romantic relationships, including communication problems, trust breakdowns, conflict patterns, or uncertainty about the relationship's future.

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  • Grief & Loss

    The emotional, physical, and psychological response to the death of a loved one or another significant loss.

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  • Stress / Burnout

    The body and mind's response to prolonged or excessive demands. When sustained, it can lead to emotional exhaustion, detachment, and reduced functioning (burnout).

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  • Trauma Therapy

    Therapeutic approaches specifically designed to help people process and recover from traumatic experiences.

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  • Women's Issues

    Psychological challenges more commonly experienced by women, including gender-based stress, reproductive health concerns, body image, caregiving burden, and societal expectations.

Professional Title:

  • Psychotherapist

    A professional trained to provide in-depth therapy that explores patterns in thoughts, emotions, and relationships to produce lasting change.

Qualifications


Brisbane Gestalt Institute

Technical and Further Education New South Wales

Registrations


Psychotherapists and Counseling Federation of Australia

Psychotherapist

Service Area


New Pathways Counselling and Support

In-person & Online

Coffs Harbour, New South Wales

Australia