Andrew

Andrew Flautt, MA

Licensed Professional Counselor

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If you're living abroad and find yourself struggling to make sense of what comes next, you're not alone. I offer English-language teletherapy for expats, internationals, and anyone navigating the emotional weight of major life transitions.

About Me

I'm Andrew Wright, a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC - Illinois) and National Certified Counselor (NCC) with a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. Before relocating to the Netherlands, I worked with clients across a wide range of backgrounds, presentations, and life circumstances in Chicago, individuals navigating anxiety, depression, identity, grief, major transitions, and the quiet but persistent sense that something in their life isn't quite right. My approach draws on existential and psychodynamic traditions, both of which take seriously the idea that understanding yourself more deeply is the path to living more freely. Existential counseling starts from a simple but serious premise: that much of what brings people to therapy isn't just a symptom to be managed, but a signal worth listening to. Anxiety, disconnection, recurring patterns, a sense that something is missing, these often point toward deeper questions about how you're living. What matters to you. What you're avoiding. Whether the life you're building actually feels like yours. Rather than working to quiet these questions, I take them seriously. We look at how you relate to meaning, choice, freedom, and the uncertainty that's woven into any life honestly lived. In practice, this isn't abstract philosophy, it's close, careful attention to your actual life. Your relationships, your patterns, your losses, your hopes. I work particularly well with expats and international professionals, people who have chosen disruption, or had it chosen for them, and are finding that the move raised questions they didn't expect. That experience of being between worlds, of rebuilding identity in unfamiliar surroundings, is one I know from the inside. It has a texture that's worth taking seriously in the room. I don't start with a framework and fit you into it. I start with you, with what you're carrying, how you're making sense of it, and what this particular moment in your life is asking for. The work is collaborative and unhurried, and it tends to produce not just relief, but clarity.

Approach

The traditions I work from, existential and psychodynamic, are less concerned with fixing what's wrong than with understanding what's true. Both ask the same fundamental question in different ways: how did you come to relate to yourself and your life the way you do, and what might become possible if that changed? On the existential side, I'm interested in the big structural questions that tend to surface when life disrupts itself, questions about meaning, freedom, responsibility, and what it actually costs to live honestly. These aren't philosophical abstractions. They show up in everyday life: in the choices you avoid, the relationships that repeat, the moments where you feel most like yourself and least like yourself. The psychodynamic dimension brings a historical curiosity to that picture. How does your past continue to organize your present? What patterns have you inherited, and which ones have you built yourself? What are you communicating in the way you relate to others, including, eventually, to me? There's something I find particularly electric in working with people who are living abroad. Whether the move was a choice you made or a circumstance that arrived and asked you to adapt, the experience of building a life in unfamiliar territory is one of the most revealing things a person can go through. It strips away the comfortable defaults and puts you in direct contact with questions most people spend a lifetime avoiding, who you are when your context changes, what you actually need, what kind of life you're capable of building. That's not always comfortable, but it's an extraordinary opportunity. And yet it's remarkably easy, even in the middle of that opportunity, to slip back into the grooves of habit and obligation, to trade the adventure for just getting through the week. Part of what we can explore together is how to actually inhabit the life you're building, not just manage it. To step off the treadmill long enough to truly feel where you are, what this is, and what it's still capable of becoming.
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Basic Information

Online Only

Services

I offer individual therapy online, drawing primarily on psychodynamic and humanistic traditions. My work is depth-oriented and collaborative, focused on helping you understand yourself more fully rather than simply managing symptoms. Sessions tend to move at the pace of real insight, unhurried, and attentive to what's actually happening beneath the surface. I also bring a philosophical sensibility to the work, particularly around questions of meaning, identity, and how we make sense of the lives we're living. This approach reframes common experiences like anxiety and depression not as character flaws or problems to be eliminated, but as signals worth listening to. Rather than working around these feelings, we work toward understanding what they're pointing at. In that sense, discomfort becomes a teacher rather than an obstacle, and the goal shifts from relief alone to something more lasting: a clearer understanding of what's driving your experience and what it might take to genuinely change it.

Services Offered:

  • Psychodynamic Therapy

    A therapy that explores how past experiences and unconscious patterns shape current feelings, relationships, and behaviour.

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  • Counselling

    A form of talk therapy providing a safe, confidential space to explore feelings, thoughts, and behaviours with a trained professional.

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  • Humanistic Therapy

    A therapeutic approach grounded in the belief that people are inherently capable of growth and self-understanding, focusing on present experience, personal meaning, and the therapeutic relationship.

  • Individual Therapy

    One-on-one therapy sessions between a client and a therapist, focused on that person's specific concerns and goals.

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  • Mindfulness

    The practice of paying deliberate attention to the present moment without judgement, used to reduce stress and increase awareness of automatic reactions.

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  • Online Counselling

    Counselling conducted via video, phone, or secure messaging, providing professional support remotely.

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  • Philosophy

    A therapeutic approach that uses philosophical inquiry to explore questions of meaning, ethics, identity, and how to live a good life.

Works With:

  • Adults
  • Elderly

Area of Expertise

Scope of Practice:

  • Anxiety

    Persistent worry, nervousness, or fear that is disproportionate to the situation and interferes with daily functioning.

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  • Depression

    A mood disorder marked by persistent low mood, loss of interest or pleasure, and changes in energy, sleep, or appetite that impair daily functioning.

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  • Grief, Loss & Bereavement

    The emotional, physical, and psychological response to the death of a loved one or another significant loss, varying widely in duration and expression.

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  • Identity & Self-Image

    A person's sense of who they are, including their values, beliefs, roles, and self-perception, and the distress that arises when this sense is unclear, fragmented, or negative.

  • Life Transitions

    Major life changes, such as relocation, retirement, parenthood, or career shifts, that disrupt routine and require psychological adjustment.

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  • Men's Issues

    Psychological challenges commonly experienced by men, including difficulty expressing emotions, anger, relationship struggles, fatherhood pressures, and societal expectations of masculinity.

  • Personal Development

    The ongoing process of self-awareness, self-improvement, and reaching one's potential, pursued not because something is wrong but to live more fully.

  • Procrastination

    The habitual delay of important tasks despite knowing the consequences, often driven by underlying anxiety, perfectionism, or fear of failure.

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  • Relationship Issues

    Difficulties in romantic relationships, including communication problems, trust breakdowns, conflict patterns, or uncertainty about the relationship's future.

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  • Relocation / Expat

    The psychological challenges of moving to a new country or city, including loneliness, culture shock, identity shifts, and loss of social support.

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Professional Title:

  • Licensed Professional Counselor

    A counselor licensed to provide professional mental health services including assessment and therapy.

Credentials

Registrations

Illinois Department of Financial and Professional Regulation (IDFPR)

Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

Registration: 178.022837

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Qualifications

Master of Arts (MA)

University of the Cumberlands

Memberships

National Board for Certified Counselors (NBCC)

Full Member

Membership: 1742000

Service Areas

Primary Office

Online Only

Leiden

Netherlands

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