Pamela

Dr Pamela Udoka, PhD

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

verified by TherapyRoute

Dr. Pamela Udoka is a licensed Clinical Psychologist and Sex Therapist helping mature individuals and couples heal deeply, reconnect emotionally, and live balanced, psychologically healthy lives at home, at work, and in life. She is also a Public Speaker Family Therapist that deploys employee assistant protocols in organizations and Author of the book, "THE PLEASURE MANUAL" which can be purchased online at www.selar.com/thepleasuremanualsoft.

About Me

This experienced Clinical Psychologist and Sex Therapist offers a grounded space for matured adults, married couples, and families. They guide clients through sensitive conversations, helping to explore relationship dynamics and sexual health concerns. Sessions foster clearer communication and deeper understanding. Clients find a thoughtful listener ready to strengthen connections and navigate life's complexities.

Approach

With people seeking clearer connection and understanding, I guide sessions that move at a steady, respectful pace, balancing direct dialogue with reflective listening. This is done after clinically assessing the clients individually. In Lagos, Abuja or online, sessions must be booked and appointments scheduled. Each session is shaped around the immediate concerns of the clients, using assessments and structured conversations to bring to the surface, patterns tied to anxiety, depression, emotional dysregulation, trauma or sexual difficulties and to set small, practical steps between sessions. I collaborate on communication skills, safety planning and gradual exposure where needed, tracking changes together. This approach suits people and relationships seeking thoughtful, practical progress.
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Basic Information

Lagos, Nigeria

Services


Dr. Pam is trusted for her ability to integrate emotional regulation, sexual health, and relational therapy, helping adults and couples function optimally across marriage, work, parenting, and life transitions.

Services Offered:

  • Relationship Counseling
  • Wellness Support
  • Online Therapy
  • Psych & Diagnostic Assessment
  • Family Therapy
  • Sex Therapy
  • Counselling
  • Divorce Counselling
  • Trauma Counselling

Works With:

  • Families
  • Individuals
  • Couples
  • Organisations
  • Parents
  • Groups

Area of Expertise


Scope of Practice:

  • Abuse
  • Anxiety
  • Mood Disorder
  • PTSD
  • Relationship Counseling
  • Relationship Issues
  • Sexual Issues
  • Trauma

Professional Title:

  • Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Qualifications


Doctor of Philosophy

Doctorate

University of Ibadan

Year: 2025

Registrations


Nigerian Association of Clinical Psychologists (NACP)

Clinical Psychologist (Scientist/Practitioner),Clinical Psychologist,Licensed Clinical Psychologist,Psychosexual Therapist,Psychotherapist,Sex Therapist,Family Therapist

Service Area


Family Wellness Therapy Centre

Lekki

Lagos, Lagos

Nigeria

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