Nicolette

Mrs Nicolette Tostée

Allied Professional

I am an experienced Psychometrist and counselor, passionate about helping people find purpose in their relationships and careers.

About Me

As an experienced Psychometrist and counselor, I am passionate about helping you find purpose in your relationships and career. We can explore your unique strengths and values through insightful conversations. Tailored assessments can also clarify what truly matters to you. If you are seeking direction, feeling stuck, or want deeper fulfilment, we can work together. My aim is to help you build a life that feels meaningful and authentic.

Approach

Purpose often becomes clearer when assessment meets honest reflection, so I translate your results into plain language you can use. In Durban or online, in English or Afrikaans, sessions are steady-paced, practical and respectful of spiritual values. We look at patterns from testing alongside real-life choices, try small experiments between meetings, and use coaching to strengthen what works. This approach suits people facing vocational, relational or faith questions who want clear, manageable next steps rather than abstract answers.
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Basic Information

Services


Services Offered:

  • Psych & Diagnostic Assessment

    Formal psychological testing to identify conditions, understand cognitive and emotional functioning, and guide treatment planning.

  • Coaching

    A goal-oriented practice focused on identifying objectives, overcoming obstacles, and taking action, centred on the present and future rather than past difficulties.

  • Corporate Workshops

    Mental health and well-being workshops delivered in workplace settings, covering topics like stress management, resilience, and communication.

  • Counseling

    A form of talk therapy providing a safe, confidential space to explore feelings, thoughts, and behaviours with a trained professional.

    Learn more about Counseling
  • Spiritual or Faith-Based Counseling

    Counselling that integrates spiritual or religious beliefs into the therapeutic process for people who want faith to be part of their healing.

  • Personal Development

    The ongoing process of self-awareness, self-improvement, and reaching one's potential, pursued not because something is wrong but to live more fully.

  • Relationship Counseling

    Counselling for couples or partners focused on improving communication, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional connection.

  • Imago Relationship Therapy

    A couples therapy approach based on the idea that relationship conflicts are rooted in unmet childhood needs, using structured dialogue to improve understanding and connection.

    Learn more about Imago Relationship Therapy

Works With:

  • All ages

Area of Expertise


Scope of Practice:

  • Career Issues

    Work-related difficulties such as chronic dissatisfaction, conflict, burnout, uncertainty about direction, or the stress of career change.

  • Spiritual or Faith-Based Counseling

    Counselling that integrates spiritual or religious beliefs into the therapeutic process for people who want faith to be part of their healing.

Professional Title:

  • Allied Professional

    A mental health support professional who works alongside psychologists, psychiatrists, and therapists to provide complementary care.

Qualifications


University of The Free State

Registrations


Health Professions Council Of South Africa (HPCSA); Board of Health Funders (BHF)

Service Area


House

In-person & Online

Essenwood

Durban, KwaZulu Natal

South Africa