Leah Spasova

I work with clients who are ready for change. My approach is focused on building self and others' awareness, processing and healing but also building skills, correcting unhealthy patterns and equipping clients with strategies that empower them to lead the life they desire.

My ultimate goal is to help you live the life you desire and dream of and help you get to a place where you don't need me.

Let's start with a Discovery Call, so we can assess if I am the right professional for you or give you a better-fit referral.

Kinds of people I see

Interestingly, most of my male clients are over 40 years of age and struggle with building relationships that meet their emotional needs and intimate desires. On the other hand, most of my female clients are under 35 years of age and find themselves struggling with challenging or confusing relationships and/or difficulties with intimate satisfaction and pleasure.

Many of my clients face intimate challenges related to libido, arousal and orgasm, but also to understanding and expressing their desires and needs. Shame, feelings of guilt and a sense of intimate inadequacy preclude them from experiencing their full pleasure potential as the sexual human being they are.

Exploration of topics such as alternative models of relationships, like polyamory, and also alternative sexual practices - as BDSM & kink are also common ''visitors'' in my sessions.

Challenges that I work with

Relationships: Love, Connection & Partnership

Whether you are single or coupled, relationships can be tough to deal with - both those with others and the one with ourselves. Hence if you feel lost or want to get more out of your relationship(s) I can help with:

- Dating challenges: from creating an appealing online profile to preparing for dates -

- finding yourself locked in patterns that sabotage your life & relationships -

- finding yourself stuck and unable to move to a healthier place with yourself and the relationship(s) that you have -

- how to cope with challenging emotions towards a partner, i.e. distrust, jealousy, indifference etc. -

- feeling like losing yourself in relationships and forgetting your own needs -

and more...

Challenges that I work with

Intimacy: Sex(uality) & Pleasure

If you're faced with intimacy challenges or are curious about exploring and expanding on your pleasure potential, I can help you with:

- addressing issues with your sex drive and/or sexual performance -

- finding new ways and paths to pleasure in your body -

- communicating your desires to partner(s) so that you can enjoy a more fulfilling intimate life -

- improving & spicing up your intimate life -

- body and sex-drive, enjoying intimacy, communicating your desires & fantasies -

- overcoming confusion, shame and guilt related to sex and pleasure -

- finding the sex-toys & sex-parties that can bring the wild experiences you desire -

and more...

Challenges that I work with

Lifestyle: Open relationships & BDSM

If the alternative lifestyle - be it the relationship models or kink and BDSM dynamics tickle your interest I can help you with:

- figuring out which relationship model would work best for you -

- how to navigate safely utilizing boundaries and limits to protect your emotional wellbeing and relationship(s) from breakdown -

- making sense of kinky desires -

- finding and joining your local BDSM community for events and play -

- how to cope with feelings of jealousy and nurture compersion in your open relationship(s) -

- how to transition from a monogamous to an open relationship -

- dealing with relationship challenges specific to polyamory and open relationships -

and more...