Jess

Jess de Ayala, BA

Counselor

Verified

I’ll support you in exploring new ways to manage your thoughts and emotions while building a healthier relationship with yourself. I take a whole-person approach, considering your thoughts, body, emotions, identity, and what matters to you. Together, we’ll explore patterns, consider new perspectives, and use practical tools to support lasting change and healthier ways of thinking and being beyond our sessions.

About Me

When life feels overwhelming, it’s okay to pause. Whether you’re dealing with depression, stress, low self-esteem, addiction, or relationship and family difficulties, therapy can offer a safe space to understand what you’re experiencing and find a way forward. Together, we can explore past experiences, understand patterns that may be affecting you now, and develop greater self-awareness, resilience, and confidence in your choices. My role is to help you make sense of what’s happening beneath the surface and support meaningful change at a pace that feels right for you. I have experience supporting people with a range of mental health and life challenges, with specialist training in eating disorders, body image, anxiety, and low mood. I also have a strong interest in the connection between neuroscience, psychology, and wellbeing. I warmly welcome LGBTQ+ clients, neurodivergent individuals, and people exploring identity, spirituality, non-monogamy, or polyamory. I aim to provide a safe, inclusive, and non-judgmental space for everyone. If you’d like to explore whether we’re a good fit, get in touch to arrange a free 20-minute online session.

Approach

I am a trauma-informed Integrative Counsellor qualified to work with a wide range of mental health challenges. I am also trained in Psychospiritual Counselling which means I am able to draw dynamically on both evidence-based psychology alongside holistic approaches. I have experience working with the following modalities: Gestalt, CBT, DBT, Person-Centred Therapy, Emotional-focused therapy, Psychosynthesis, Ecopsychology and Transpersonal Approaches. As a meditator of over a decade and having worked with therapies that support connection with our bodies (dance, yoga, breathwork) I often bring in supportive tools that you can utilise to self-regulate and better manage your emotions and experiences. I draw on techniques like mindfulness, somatic experiencing, body-awareness and emotional-focussed therapy to support the work. It is through exploring our challenges on all levels that I believe the deepest healing can take place. A practical approach to lasting change: · A safe, non-judgemental space to be heard - slow down, build self-awareness and clarity. · Uncover the root causes of your current challenges · Break patterns that no longer serve you and build habits that do · Work with mind and body – this is not just talking. We will use experimentation and support you to learn tools that translate into real shifts in your daily life. · Our work focuses on insight and practical change, helping you develop new ways of relating to yourself and others. Therapy with me may support you to: - Understand and reduce anxiety, GAD, panic attacks, and social anxiety. - Work through depression, low mood, shame, and self-criticism. - Improve self-esteem, self-confidence, and emotional regulation. - Explore relationship issues, attachment patterns, and identity. - Address addiction, unhealthy habits, compulsive behaviours. - Heal from trauma and challenging childhood experiences. - Navigate life transitions, divorce and separation, career stress, burnout, insomnia, loss or bereavement. - Reconnect with meaning, values, and a sense of direction.
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Basic Information

Online Only

Services

I have particular experience working with: Depression, stress, relationship issues, family issues, anxiety, low self-confidence, self-criticism and shame, addiction, unhealthy habits and patterns, body image issues, trauma, identity, non-monogamy and polyamory, emotional abuse, bullying, low self-esteem, confidence, high sensitivity, grief, spirituality, perfectionism, career counselling, work-related stress and burnout, hoarding, and health anxiety. Though I have specific experience with these issues, I welcome all humans and all challenges.

Services Offered:

  • Counselling

    A form of talk therapy providing a safe, confidential space to explore feelings, thoughts, and behaviours with a trained professional.

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  • Guided Visualisation

    A relaxation technique in which a therapist guides you through calming mental imagery to reduce stress, anxiety, or pain.

  • Humanistic Therapy

    A therapeutic approach grounded in the belief that people are inherently capable of growth and self-understanding, focusing on present experience, personal meaning, and the therapeutic relationship.

  • Mindfulness

    The practice of paying deliberate attention to the present moment without judgement, used to reduce stress and increase awareness of automatic reactions.

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  • Online Counselling

    Counselling conducted via video, phone, or secure messaging, providing professional support remotely.

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  • Online Therapy

    Therapy sessions conducted over video call, phone, or secure messaging, using the same professional methods delivered remotely.

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  • Philosophy

    A therapeutic approach that uses philosophical inquiry to explore questions of meaning, ethics, identity, and how to live a good life.

  • Psychoeducation

    Structured information provided about a mental health condition (what it is, why it occurs, and what strategies can help) as part of the therapeutic process.

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  • Individual Therapy

    One-on-one therapy sessions between a client and a therapist, focused on that person's specific concerns and goals.

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Works With:

  • Adults
  • Elderly
  • Individuals

Area of Expertise

Scope of Practice:

  • Anxiety

    Persistent worry, nervousness, or fear that is disproportionate to the situation and interferes with daily functioning.

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  • Shame

    A deep, painful emotion involving the belief that one is fundamentally flawed or unworthy, which can affect self-perception and relationships.

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  • Self-Esteem

    A person's overall sense of their own worth and value. When chronically low, it can drive self-doubt, avoidance, and difficulty in relationships.

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  • Body Image

    How a person perceives, thinks, and feels about their physical appearance. When persistently negative, it can drive distress, avoidance, and disordered eating.

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  • Grief, Loss & Bereavement

    The emotional, physical, and psychological response to the death of a loved one or another significant loss, varying widely in duration and expression.

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  • Identity & Self-Image

    A person's sense of who they are, including their values, beliefs, roles, and self-perception, and the distress that arises when this sense is unclear, fragmented, or negative.

  • Depression

    A mood disorder marked by persistent low mood, loss of interest or pleasure, and changes in energy, sleep, or appetite that impair daily functioning.

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  • Stress / Burnout

    The body and mind's response to prolonged or excessive demands. When sustained, it can lead to emotional exhaustion, detachment, and reduced functioning (burnout).

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  • Relationship Issues

    Difficulties in romantic relationships, including communication problems, trust breakdowns, conflict patterns, or uncertainty about the relationship's future.

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Professional Title:

  • Counselor

    A trained professional who provides talk therapy to help clients work through emotional, relational, and psychological difficulties.

Credentials

Qualifications

BA Philosophy

University of Bristol

Year: 2011

Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling

CPCAB (Counselling & Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body)

Year: 2025

Memberships

National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS)

Full Member

Membership: NCPS3636

Service Areas

Awakened Self Therapy

Online Only

London · Manchester · Birmingham

United Kingdom

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