Ilze

Dr Ilze Van der Merwe

Counseling Psychologist

"You can't go back to change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending" -C.S Lewis-

About Me

I support individuals seeking to transform past experiences into a path for positive change. We explore present challenges, helping you develop new perspectives for navigating life differently. This is for you if you feel held back. Together, we can embrace new possibilities and shape a more hopeful future.

Approach

Beginning from the idea that the past doesn't dictate the ending, my work concentrates on real-time choices and small, steady shifts you can feel between sessions. In Cape Town and online I offer sessions in Afrikaans and English where we move at a steady, humane pace — noticing patterns, building coping skills for anxiety, mood and relational strain, and creating practical safety and communication steps you can use right away. This approach suits people ready to experiment with new responses and find clearer ways forward.
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Basic Information

Services


Services Offered:

  • Psycho-Legal

    Psychological assessment and expert reporting for court proceedings, legal disputes, or regulatory matters.

  • Crisis Counseling

    Immediate, short-term psychological support during an acute mental health crisis such as a panic episode, suicidal thoughts, or overwhelming distress.

  • Divorce Counseling

    Counselling for individuals or couples going through separation or divorce, addressing the emotional, practical, and relational dimensions.

  • Counseling

    A form of talk therapy providing a safe, confidential space to explore feelings, thoughts, and behaviours with a trained professional.

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  • Relationship Counseling

    Counselling for couples or partners focused on improving communication, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional connection.

  • Psychology

    The scientific study and clinical practice of understanding the mind, emotions, and behaviour, applied to promote healthier functioning.

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Works With:

  • Adolescents
  • Adults
  • Couples
  • Parents

Area of Expertise


Scope of Practice:

  • Abuse

    Emotional, physical, or sexual mistreatment by another person that causes lasting psychological harm and disrupts a person's sense of safety.

  • Adolescent Therapy

    Therapy designed for teenagers, using age-appropriate methods to address issues like anxiety, identity, peer pressure, and family conflict.

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  • Anxiety

    Persistent worry, nervousness, or fear that is disproportionate to the situation and interferes with daily functioning.

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  • Mood Disorder

    A category of mental health conditions, including depression and bipolar disorder, in which a person's emotional state is significantly and persistently disrupted.

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  • Postnatal or Perinatal Depression

    Depression occurring during pregnancy or in the months following childbirth, affecting mood, energy, bonding with the baby, and daily functioning.

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  • Divorce Counseling

    Counselling for individuals or couples going through separation or divorce, addressing the emotional, practical, and relational dimensions.

  • Relationship Issues

    Difficulties in romantic relationships, including communication problems, trust breakdowns, conflict patterns, or uncertainty about the relationship's future.

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Professional Title:

  • Counseling Psychologist

    A psychologist who helps people with everyday life challenges (relationships, work stress, adjustment) as well as mental health conditions.

Qualifications


University of Johannesburg

Registrations


Health Professions Council of South Africa (HPCSA)

Counseling Psychologist

Service Area


Private Practice

In-person & Online

Melkbosstrand

Cape Town, Western Cape

South Africa

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