Gilly

Mrs Gilly Dowthwaite Wells

Psychotherapist

I work with individuals, couples, adolescents. I am also a supervisor. life and mindfulness coach. I have worked for the NHS, Relate and CAMHS in the UK. I work online with a range of issues. I have been a therapist for about 16 years and have positive outcomes for my clients.

About Me

This BACP Senior Accredited Psychotherapist brings 15 years' experience to online sessions. They support individuals, couples, and adolescents with a wide range of issues. Their background includes extensive work with NHS, Relate, and CAMHS. They can help you explore challenges and integrate mindfulness tools. This grounded, experienced therapist is ideal for those seeking practical support for diverse needs.

Approach

Years in public and relationship services taught me to blend steady pacing with practical mindfulness so therapy feels focused and doable. I meet people in Hanoi and across Vietnam in English, mostly online, creating a calm, predictable space where we set small goals, notice patterns and practise tools between sessions. Sessions balance gentle challenge with clear boundaries, and I offer short, actionable steps alongside reflective listening. This way of working often suits people seeking steady progress through stress, trauma or life transitions.
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Basic Information

Services


Services Offered:

  • Clinical Supervision

    Professional oversight and reflective practice for clinical practitioners, ensuring quality of care and supporting ongoing development.

  • Coaching

    A goal-oriented practice focused on identifying objectives, overcoming obstacles, and taking action, centred on the present and future rather than past difficulties.

  • Crisis Counseling

    Immediate, short-term psychological support during an acute mental health crisis such as a panic episode, suicidal thoughts, or overwhelming distress.

  • Personal Development

    The ongoing process of self-awareness, self-improvement, and reaching one's potential, pursued not because something is wrong but to live more fully.

  • Wellness Support

    Holistic support focused on overall well-being, including stress management, lifestyle balance, and building sustainable healthy habits.

  • Stress Management

    Techniques and strategies for managing the body and mind's response to excessive demands, including relaxation, cognitive restructuring, and lifestyle changes.

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  • Skills Training

    Structured programmes that teach practical coping and life skills, such as emotional regulation, interpersonal effectiveness, and distress tolerance.

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Works With:

  • Individuals

Area of Expertise


Scope of Practice:

  • Abuse

    Emotional, physical, or sexual mistreatment by another person that causes lasting psychological harm and disrupts a person's sense of safety.

  • Anxiety

    Persistent worry, nervousness, or fear that is disproportionate to the situation and interferes with daily functioning.

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  • Behaviour or Conduct Issues

    Persistent patterns of defiant, aggressive, or rule-breaking behaviour in children or adolescents that significantly disrupt home, school, or social life.

  • Grief & Loss

    The emotional, physical, and psychological response to the death of a loved one or another significant loss.

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  • Stress / Burnout

    The body and mind's response to prolonged or excessive demands. When sustained, it can lead to emotional exhaustion, detachment, and reduced functioning (burnout).

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  • Child Psych & Diagnostic Assessment

    Formal assessment of a child's psychological, cognitive, or emotional functioning to identify conditions and guide appropriate support.

  • Trauma Therapy

    Therapeutic approaches specifically designed to help people process and recover from traumatic experiences.

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  • Young Adult Issues

    The unique psychological challenges of emerging adulthood (18–25), including identity formation, independence, relationship navigation, and finding direction.

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Professional Title:

  • Psychotherapist

    A professional trained to provide in-depth therapy that explores patterns in thoughts, emotions, and relationships to produce lasting change.

Qualifications


Winchester University,

Tony Robbins

Ironmill Institute, Exeter

Relate Institute

National Counseling Society (NCS)

Registrations


British Association of Counsellors & Psychotherapists (BACP); National Counseling Society (NCS); British Psychological Society (BPS); The Association of Neuro Lingistic Programming International (ANLP)

Counsellor/Psychotherapist, Supervisor, Life Coach

Service Area


The Friarsgate GP Surgery

In-person & Online

Hampshire

Winchester, England

United Kingdom

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