Theuns

Mr Theuns Stofberg

Counselor

“I work with individuals, couples, families to have a better and healthier connection in their personal life as well in their relationships”

About Me

I work with individuals, couples, and families to cultivate healthier, more connected relationships. Sessions provide a supportive space to explore communication patterns and understand personal dynamics. We can work together to navigate challenges, foster mutual understanding, and build lasting bonds. If you feel disconnected, or wish to improve family harmony, I can help you find clear, respectful ways forward. My aim is to help your relationships truly flourish.

Approach

To deepen connection I focus on practical, respectful shifts in daily patterns that make conversations less painful and more productive. In Stellenbosch I offer sessions in Afrikaans and English and also meet online, creating a steady, confidential space whether you’re local or remote. Sessions move at a steady, pragmatic pace: we map patterns, practice short, real-life communication experiments, and agree small between-session steps to try new ways of relating. People wanting clear, respectful change often find this way of working useful and sustaining.
Contact Theuns

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Basic Information

Services

Services Offered:

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    Divorce Counseling

    Counselling for individuals or couples going through separation or divorce, addressing the emotional, practical, and relational dimensions.

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    Family Therapy

    A form of therapy that works with family members together to improve communication, resolve conflict, and strengthen relationships within the family system.

    Learn more about Family Therapy
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    Relationship Counseling

    Counselling for couples or partners focused on improving communication, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional connection.

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    Ukraine Aid

    Mental health support specifically for people affected by the conflict in Ukraine, including refugees, displaced families, and those experiencing war trauma.

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    Mediation

    A structured process in which a neutral third party helps people in conflict reach a mutually acceptable agreement.

    Learn more about Mediation

Works With:

  • •All ages
  • •Adults
  • •Communities
  • •Couples
  • •Families
  • •Organisations
  • •Parents

Area of Expertise

Scope of Practice:

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    Divorce Counseling

    Counselling for individuals or couples going through separation or divorce, addressing the emotional, practical, and relational dimensions.

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    Family Issues

    Difficulties within the family system, including conflict, communication breakdown, blended family tensions, or intergenerational patterns, that affect individual and collective well-being.

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    Abuse

    Emotional, physical, or sexual mistreatment by another person that causes lasting psychological harm and disrupts a person's sense of safety.

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    Online Therapy

    Therapy sessions conducted over video call, phone, or secure messaging, using the same professional methods delivered remotely.

    Learn more about Online Therapy
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    Parenting Support

    Guidance for the psychological challenges of raising children, including discipline, communication, co-parenting, and managing the emotional demands of parenthood.

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    Relationship Counseling

    Counselling for couples or partners focused on improving communication, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional connection.

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    Relationship Issues

    Difficulties in romantic relationships, including communication problems, trust breakdowns, conflict patterns, or uncertainty about the relationship's future.

    Learn more about Relationship Issues
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    Stress / Burnout

    The body and mind's response to prolonged or excessive demands. When sustained, it can lead to emotional exhaustion, detachment, and reduced functioning (burnout).

    Learn more about Stress / Burnout

Professional Title:

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    Counselor

    A trained professional who provides talk therapy to help clients work through emotional, relational, and psychological difficulties.

Qualifications

University of the Free State

Family Mediators' Association of the Cape (FAMAC)

Imago Africa

Registrations

Health Professional Board

Physiotherapist

Service Area

Rouana Guest Farm

In-person & Online

Koelenhof

Stellenbosch, Western Cape

South Africa