Prioritising "Us"
Practical tips on how put your relationship at the top of your list.
Dr Karin Du Plessis, PhD
Registered Counselor
“Are you trapped in constant conflict, walking on eggshells, or feeling more like detached roommates than romantic partners? As a specialist couples counsellor at Relationships Squared, I help Melbourne couples escape defensive communication cycles and revive intimacy. Using fair, balanced, and evidence-based Gottman Method frameworks, we work together to transform your relationship into one of stronger connection, warmth, and ease. We proudly welcome and support all orientations. ”
About me
I am an experienced couples counsellor with a PhD in psychology specifically focusing on couples' conflict, attachment dynamics, and relationship systems. Taking the first step toward relationship therapy can feel incredibly daunting, but you do not have to carry this burden alone. My therapeutic style is warm, non-judgmental, transparent, and direct, ensuring both partners feel equally heard, protected, and supported.
Approach
My relational and attachment-based approach follows a structured path to help you step out of old patterns and rebuild connection.
• Advanced Framework: My practice is grounded in having completed Level 3 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
• Thorough Assessment: We map your unique dynamics using a 3-step relationship health assessment and the Gottman Questionnaire.
• Active In-Session Practice: We use structured, fair exercises to break defensive communication cycles in real time.
• Actionable Homework: You receive practical habits to manage conflict and maintain warmth between appointments.
Contact Karin
Ask a quick question or arrange a time to meet.
Basic information
Services
Specialised relationship support is tailored for couples navigating:
• Infidelity & Betrayal Recovery: Processing trauma, constructing safety, and rebuilding an honest foundation.
• Communication & Connection Breakdown: Breaking through emotional distance, constant arguments, and roommate dynamics.
• Life-Stage Transitions & Parenting: Reconnecting after having children or navigating parenthood pressures.
• Pre-Marital Counselling: Equipping partners with lifelong communication tools and conflict-resolution frameworks before marriage.
• Empty Nest & Retirement: Untangling built-up resentment and realigning long-term goals for older partners.
Services Offered:
Clinical Supervision
Professional oversight and reflective practice for clinical practitioners, ensuring quality of care and supporting ongoing development.
Online Counseling
Counselling conducted via video, phone, or secure messaging, providing professional support remotely.
Learn more about Online CounselingConflict Management
Structured approaches to resolving disputes and improving communication between people in conflict, whether in relationships, families, or workplaces.
Relationship Counselling
Counselling for couples or partners focused on improving communication, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional connection.
Couples Therapy
Therapy for partners working on communication, conflict, intimacy, and trust, with both people seen together rather than individually.
Works With:
- Couples
- Adults
- Parents
- Elderly
Area of expertise
Scope of Practice:
Addiction
A compulsive dependence on a substance or behaviour, such as alcohol, drugs, or gambling, that causes harmful consequences to health, relationships, or daily life.
Learn more about AddictionDivorce Counseling
Counselling for individuals or couples going through separation or divorce, addressing the emotional, practical, and relational dimensions.
Forgiveness
The psychological process of releasing resentment or anger toward someone who has caused harm, a complex emotional journey rather than a simple decision.
LGBTQI+ Support
The unique psychological experiences of LGBTQI+ individuals, including identity exploration, coming out, discrimination, minority stress, and relationship dynamics.
Relationship Issues
Difficulties in romantic relationships, including communication problems, trust breakdowns, conflict patterns, or uncertainty about the relationship's future.
Learn more about Relationship IssuesLife Transitions
Major life changes, such as relocation, retirement, parenthood, or career shifts, that disrupt routine and require psychological adjustment.
Learn more about Life TransitionsParenting Support
Guidance for the psychological challenges of raising children, including discipline, communication, co-parenting, and managing the emotional demands of parenthood.
Relationship Counseling
Counselling for couples or partners focused on improving communication, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional connection.
Sexual Issues
Difficulties related to sexual functioning, desire, identity, or behaviour that cause distress or interfere with relationships.
Learn more about Sexual Issues
Professional Title:
Registered Counselor
A counselor who is formally registered with a professional or regulatory body.
Credentials
Registrations
Australian Counseling Association
Counsellor
Qualifications
Doctor of Philosophy
Massey University
Year: 2008
Diploma of Counselling
AIPC
Year: 2020
Memberships
Australian Counselling Association (ACA)
Full Member
Membership: 17474
Service Areas
Carlton North, Australia
