Dina

Dina Kostan, MSc

Psychologist

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I work with adults who seem to be managing well but privately feel overwhelmed, disconnected, or not good enough, often struggling with perfectionism, people-pleasing, self-doubt, or repeating relationship patterns.

About Me

I am a psychologist registered with the Dutch Association of Psychologists (NIP) and the founder of Compassionate Therapist in Amsterdam. I provide therapy in both English and Croatian. Originally from Croatia, I have lived in the Netherlands for 12 years and have also lived and worked in Mexico and South Africa for shorter periods. These experiences have deepened my understanding of identity, belonging, cultural differences, and the emotional impact of building a life away from home. I value authenticity, compassion, and genuine human connection. As a therapist, I aim to create a space where you do not have to perform, explain everything perfectly, or already have all the answers. I am naturally curious and committed to lifelong learning. I continue to deepen my professional development through training in Integral Body Psychotherapy, which has broadened my understanding of the connection between emotional well-being and the body. This ongoing learning allows me to bring an increasingly holistic and nuanced perspective to my work as a psychologist.

Approach

Therapy with me is collaborative, compassionate, and structured. Together, we look beyond what is troubling you now to understand the emotional patterns, beliefs, and ways of coping that may be contributing to your difficulties. I work primarily with Schema Therapy and integrate elements of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), alongside body-oriented approaches informed by my training in Integral Body Psychotherapy. Schema Therapy can help you understand how early experiences and unmet emotional needs may continue to influence how you see yourself, relate to others, and respond in difficult situations. This may include being highly self-critical, fearing rejection, struggling to trust others, putting your own needs aside, or feeling guilty when setting boundaries. ACT can help you respond more flexibly to painful thoughts and emotions while making choices that reflect what matters most to you. Sometimes, understanding a pattern intellectually is not enough to change it. You may know why you react in a certain way and still feel overwhelmed, tense, disconnected, or unable to respond differently. Paying attention to bodily signals can help you notice distress earlier, understand your emotions and needs more clearly, and feel more grounded when difficult feelings arise. Any body-oriented work is introduced collaboratively and at a pace that feels safe and comfortable for you. The aim is not simply to manage symptoms, but to help you develop a more compassionate relationship with yourself, respond to difficulties in healthier ways, and create lasting changes that feel meaningful in your everyday life.
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Basic Information

Online Only

Services

My areas of specialisation include anxiety, depression, stress, grief and loss, trauma, the impact of sexual abuse, and anger-related difficulties.

Services Offered:

  • Individual Therapy

    One-on-one therapy sessions between a client and a therapist, focused on that person's specific concerns and goals.

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  • Schema Therapy

    A therapy that identifies deep, long-standing emotional patterns (schemas) formed in childhood and works to change the ones that cause recurring problems.

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  • Free Consultation

    A no-cost initial session to meet the therapist, discuss needs, and decide whether they are the right fit before committing.

  • Online Therapy

    Therapy sessions conducted over video call, phone, or secure messaging, using the same professional methods delivered remotely.

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Works With:

  • Adults
  • Parents
  • Organisations
  • Individuals

Area of Expertise

Scope of Practice:

  • Anxiety

    Persistent worry, nervousness, or fear that is disproportionate to the situation and interferes with daily functioning.

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  • Self-Esteem

    A person's overall sense of their own worth and value. When chronically low, it can drive self-doubt, avoidance, and difficulty in relationships.

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  • Anger

    An intense emotional response to perceived threat, injustice, or frustration that, when persistent or uncontrolled, can damage relationships and well-being.

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  • Codependency

    A relational pattern in which a person's sense of identity and self-worth becomes excessively tied to caring for or controlling another person, often at their own expense.

  • Control Issues

    A persistent need to control situations, people, or outcomes, typically driven by underlying anxiety, fear of uncertainty, or past experiences of helplessness.

  • Depression

    A mood disorder marked by persistent low mood, loss of interest or pleasure, and changes in energy, sleep, or appetite that impair daily functioning.

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  • Trauma

    The lasting psychological impact of deeply distressing events, such as violence, abuse, accidents, or disasters, that overwhelm a person's ability to cope.

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  • Stress / Burnout

    The body and mind's response to prolonged or excessive demands. When sustained, it can lead to emotional exhaustion, detachment, and reduced functioning (burnout).

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  • Procrastination

    The habitual delay of important tasks despite knowing the consequences, often driven by underlying anxiety, perfectionism, or fear of failure.

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  • Identity & Self-Image

    A person's sense of who they are, including their values, beliefs, roles, and self-perception, and the distress that arises when this sense is unclear, fragmented, or negative.

Professional Title:

  • Psychologist

    A professional trained to assess and treat mental health conditions using evidence-based psychological methods.

Credentials

Registrations

Netherlands Instituut van Psychologen (NIP)

Psychologist

Qualifications

MSc Clinical Psychology

Erasmus Universiteit Rotterdam

Year: 2022

WO Bachelor Psychologie

University of Groningen

Year: 2019

Service Areas

Compassionate Therapist

Online Only

Amsterdam · Utrecht · Leiden

Netherlands

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