Ben

Ben Thornhill

Registered Psychotherapist

An experienced, thoughtful and compassionate existential therapist supporting adults facing anxiety, shame, relationship difficulties, and life transitions — offering space to explore stuck patterns, reconnect with meaning, and move toward greater clarity and freedom.

About Me

I am a Registered Psychotherapist in Bushey, England. I offer online psychotherapy for relationship difficulties, ADHD attention challenges, and feelings of inadequacy. I support individuals and couples to improve communication, manage attention, and strengthen self-confidence.

Approach

When life feels cramped by anxiety, shame or messy relationships, I invite curiosity about the small moments that keep you stuck and the choices that loosen them. Working online from London in English, sessions move at a practical, reflective pace—sometimes lively, sometimes quiet—and we set doable experiments between meetings to test new ways of relating and attending. I track attention, communication patterns and self-critical thinking with gentle challenge and collaborative planning so insight becomes clearer day-to-day choice. People juggling attention differences, low self-worth or relationship strain often find this steady, compassionate way helpful.
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Basic Information

Services


I offer one-to-one therapy for adults, either online or in person in Bushey. Some people come to therapy with a clear issue — such as anxiety, burnout, shame, or relationship difficulties. Others come with a more general sense of feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from themselves or others.

You don’t need to have a diagnosis or know exactly what’s wrong. Therapy can help you make sense of what you’re experiencing and move toward a way of living that feels more real, grounded, and sustainable.

I also offer a free 15-minute consultation so we can see whether it feels like a good fit to work together.

In-person sessions are £70, reflecting the costs involved. Online sessions are £60. I do offer some discounts depending on circumstances so please inquire if that is prohibitive.

Services Offered:

  • Psychotherapy

    In-depth therapeutic work that explores patterns in thoughts, emotions, and relationships to produce lasting psychological change.

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  • Individual Therapy

    One-on-one therapy sessions between a client and a therapist, focused on that person's specific concerns and goals.

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Works With:

  • Adults
  • Individuals

Area of Expertise


Scope of Practice:

  • Relationship Issues

    Difficulties in romantic relationships, including communication problems, trust breakdowns, conflict patterns, or uncertainty about the relationship's future.

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  • ADHD / Attention

    A neurodevelopmental condition involving persistent difficulty with attention, impulsivity, and/or hyperactivity that interferes with daily functioning.

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  • Mood Disorder

    A category of mental health conditions, including depression and bipolar disorder, in which a person's emotional state is significantly and persistently disrupted.

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  • Inadequacy

    A persistent inner sense of not being good enough, often rooted in early experiences and manifesting as self-doubt, comparison, or avoidance.

  • Online Therapy

    Therapy sessions conducted over video call, phone, or secure messaging, using the same professional methods delivered remotely.

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  • Self-Esteem

    A person's overall sense of their own worth and value. When chronically low, it can drive self-doubt, avoidance, and difficulty in relationships.

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  • Shame

    A deep, painful emotion involving the belief that one is fundamentally flawed or unworthy, which can affect self-perception and relationships.

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Professional Title:

  • Registered Psychotherapist

    A psychotherapist who is formally registered with a regulatory body to provide psychotherapy.

Qualifications


New School of Psychotherapy and Counseling

Registrations


UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP)

Registered Psychotherapist

Service Area


Bushey Therapy Centre

In-person & Online

Bushey

Borehamwood, England

United Kingdom